Is He Cheating On You?

There are a lot of reasons why you might suspect your boyfriend is cheating. Maybe he’s been spending a lot of time with one girl, or he’s been acting distant when you’re together. Maybe he’s been getting weird about his phone and what he does on it. You might have even found evidence of him talking to another girl. It could also be that nothing seems out of the ordinary, but you just have this feeling that something isn’t right.

We know how hard it can be to spot early signs of infidelity—we’ve been there ourselves. But don’t worry: we’re here to help! We’ve put together a list of some of the most common early warning signs that might indicate your partner is cheating. If you notice any of these things happening in your relationship, take action before it’s too late.

He Doesn’t Want To Be Around You Anymore

This one is obvious. If he stops making time for you, then chances are high that he’s not interested in spending time with you anymore. If this happens often enough, then chances are even higher that there will be someone else in his life who makes him feel more special than you ever could (or at least tries).

He’s acting secretive.

If something isn’t right, your guy will start acting more secretive than usual. He might avoid answering phone calls (unless they’re from his mistress), avoid looking at text messages altogether, or even avoid going out in public with you altogether. If this sounds like something that might be happening in your relationship, then it’s time to get some answers.


He’s spending more time on his phone than usual.

If your boyfriend suddenly starts spending hours scrolling through social media and texting non-stop, it could mean that he’s found himself a new lady friend and wants to impress her with his witty banter and thoughtful insights into current events. On the other hand, it could also mean that he’s just bored at work and looking for something fun to do during his lunch break (which doesn’t really count). Either way, it’s worth keeping an eye on where exactly his attention goes when he’s texting someone that is not you.

The disappearing act.

He disappears for long periods of time without giving any explanation. If your guy starts spending more time away from home than usual (or staying out late when he used to come home early), then there’s a good chance that he’s doing something behind your back. It could be work-related or social—but either way, it’s definitely something that needs attention before things get worse.

He’s not excited about the future anymore.

If your boyfriend used to be excited about life and the future—about going on dates with you, or planning vacations together—but now his eyes glaze over when you talk about these things, he might be cheating. Maybe he got a promotion at work that makes him more exhausted than usual; maybe he started dating someone else; maybe he was just tired of hearing about your plans for dinner parties and vacations because it reminds him of how much time he has spent away from home lately.

Catching a cheater is no easy feat. It often takes patience, a watchful eye, and a bit of luck. While you shouldn’t make up your mind too quickly or assume your partner is cheating, it’s never bad to be safe than sorry. If you begin to notice any of the five warning signs that we’ve listed above early on in a relationship, take a step back from your budding romance and assess the situation for yourself. Only you can decide how important trust is in your own relationships and how far you are willing to go to maintain it.

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